three years ago, i married this guy. he’s cute.
happy anniversary, will!
Category Archives: LOVE
words to live by no. 3
The latest GOOP newsletter has an inspiring interview with Gay & Kate Hendricks on their theory about participating in ‘co-committed’ relationships rather than co-dependent ones. I highly recommend it–you will find it relevant for all your relationships. Read the entire article here.
Photo from That Kind of Woman
it’s hard to write a real love song
I have been trying to write a love song (I know, really original content), but I really struggled to tell this story without some sort of cliche. It’s hard to express the difficult side of love: the fear, the give-and-take, the selfishness. Then still say why modern, enlightened people choose to do it. Because you can’t just outsource all the things you like about love (or marriage, in my case) and ultimately be fulfilled.
If you have loved someone for years, I respect your courage to be fully present with another person for that long. I tried to write a song that shows love as a choice, a devotion, a constant rearranging to make room for another soul. The way you come to that decision – that is your love story.
image from le loveBuilt by 360 Zen
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